God is Taking Care of it!

Yes...its true!! I finally did it! I took my son's dad to court for continuation of the child support and yesterday they tried to serve him and I got that nasty phone call that now he is threatening me that if I don't take it back I will loose the life insurance, etc..etc..etc...


The thing is he knew we won in 2007 but we suspended it because of Tim's SSI & Medicaid and of course he promised he would pay me something every month and yet this man has not kept his part of the deal. He makes promises he can't keep and ask me to "trust him" but yet he has given me plenty of reasons not to trust him.

The thing is that he thinks he has control of me and he thinks he has me wrapped around his stupid finger. Guess what?! I'm not going that way anymore. I'm done trusting a man who lies to me all the time!! I'm not going to fall under his brainwashing spell.  I no longer can be loyal to someone who has betrayed me over n' over and he is proud of it too! But God forbid you do anything to him cuz then you are punished greatly for it.  He actually thinks I'm black balling him.  LOL   He wanted to know why I never told him. Well I told him cuz "I knew you would run and hide! like you always do."    Does he really think I'm that stupid?  He would had tried to "brainwash me" to be loyal to him and to "trust him" as he will take care of things.  His lies is his way of escape.

Ok...he has done some good things.  I have to give him some credit.  He is not a bad guy, he just makes bad choices and one of them is that he ignores Timothy and his excuse that is Tim is not nearby to get to know him.  But yet Victor has money to take his fancy vacations and go to his fancy places and makes NO effort to spend time with his son.   So it is his fault that he does not take time for Tim.  And what about all the times I took Tim up to see him and VICTOR CANCELLED EVERYTIME  I took Tim up.   and his mother's exucse is that "he is to busy to spend time with you".     PLEASE!!!!!!!! don't make excuses for this man!

So...now he vows he will never talk to me again. I laughed at him because he says that all the time and he still callls and texts me. So let's see how long that will be before he calls back.

When he threatened me that he would not give me a dime of the life insurance...I gave him a piece of my mind. Like anything he says really matters and anything I say does not. So this tells me that he does not care like he claims. He is trying to manipulate me with more his threats and lies.  I 'm not falling for it again. No more. I'm just tired of it.  He is exhasting me with his foolishness.

Wait till his parents and brothers find out that he plans not to attend Tim's funeral and then they are foolish to believe his stupid lies?  they believe the asshole!   If this man has any inkling that he does love and care for his son, he will step up and take responsibility and do what he is suppose to.  But the fact he has no plans to attend Tim's funeral and that he has NOT paid child support (he has only paid out for health insurance this year only) will tell you who Victor really is.  The truth will now come out- simply because now he is force to pay (child) Adult support to the courts.  He is force because he is unwilling or volunteer to do it on his own. He is force because NOW the truth comes out-  because he has lied.  Because the truth is out that "doesn't love or care about this boy because I don't know him"    What???!!!  really?!   Moran!!

I"m also wondering...how much his wife really knows about what is going on? and his in-laws, muchless his family? I'm wondering how much he has lied to them and they are foolish enough to believe him.

And why did it take him so long to tell me he has health insurance on Timothy???? Why?!!! Its his fault he kept his mouth shut! and its against the law as well...because this should had been reported to Medicare and Medicaid and his insruance would had been primary, then Medicare and then Medicaid.   So if they ever find out- guess what?! They will go after him for his decietfulness!  Because I had NO clue that Victor had health insruance on Tim.  I told him last year not to do it cuz of the pre-existence and yet he still did it and failed to tell me to report it to Medicare and Medicaid.   That is how stupid and selfish Victor is-he listens to no one but himself because he thinks he is above everyone!  

I also explained to him that the money is NOT coming to me. It is being directly depoisted into Tim's Special needs trust account. I can't touch that money. He just doesn't get it. He doesn't.

Tim's dad is a very selfish man. I'm not talking about financially (or just)...but as a person. He thinks he is perfect and he has a terrible thing of OCD! He is about Victor and no one else. He has to rise above everyone else and if you don't meet that standard you are not worthy, not good enough.

The way I see it...God is taking care of everything (and Victor is NOT listening Him).

Yes,  God is taking care of it!

did I hear something bit him in the ass? LOL